عالم الحياة الزوجية - منتدى

farah83 · 23-11-2004, 19:40

hi all
first of all im sorry coz i'll write in english (i don't have an arabic keyboard),im a new user of this chat so i'll say hi to all of u and i hope to be a good friends for u.
i just wanna tell u my story to have ur opinion and why not ur advices ,when i was 14 i falled in love with one of my classmates i thought that it was just a teeneger's love so i kept it for me and i told nobody about it but i felt his love and his attachment to me and 3 years after he told me that he loves me ,as we was just a student we decided to not dream alot and we lived our life simply we've had a strong relationship and we couldn't live without each other but after my bac i decided to continue my studies aboard so a left him but we kept our relationship and we sufferd a lot from this distance ,and he told me that we have to be just friends coz he can't bear that situation ,i accepted but whenever i come back to my my contry for holidays and i see him we

l the fire of love burning our hearts ,now im 21 and i still love him bt i can't support this situation ,i have to forget him but as i still fell his love to me i can't ,i wanna change this life im living in ,we know that we can't be just friends we are just liiying to each other but when one of us want to establish a relationship with another person he can't coz our love is so strong ,u'll say to me so why don't be with each other ,i'll tell u we've tried many times but really we can't now with this distance coz rarely when i go back to my contry so it won't work ,the second thing that for him im the only girl he loved and he saw his friends with their love and it made him so sad and i don't want him to suffer any more .i know that what i say is for many people stupid and nonesens .but i really need someone to guide me ,i can't bear that any longer.
thanks ,and sorry for bothering

نادر1 · 23-11-2004, 19:56

we will try to help u but believe me most of member don’t Know English

so i will read again

and help as I can

°•« § سارهـ §»•° · 23-11-2004, 20:02

hello farah

from reading your story i found it impossible to solve your problem because you need to decide whether you love him
and want to continue loving him , or you tend to leave him and try to love somebody else near you
so if you want my advice, try to find a new love i know its hard, but you need to sacrifise your first love to leave your suffer

your sister
Samarah

farah83 · 23-11-2004, 20:10

thx samara but you know i ve tried many times to love another one but the pb is whenever i'm with an other i think about him ,i really wana forget his love no no really i dont know ,im so so so puzled but i know that leaving his love is the best way for me .

farah83 · 23-11-2004, 20:11

thx nader i ll wait for ur answer

الاقتصادي · 23-11-2004, 22:03

hi farah
there is just one way to change your life
it is too hard but there is no more ways
you will not spand your life thinking about him
tell your self -it is my first love
and we spent lovely days
but it will not be the last lovely days
in my life i am still young and when
i find my hasband i will find the happence
-----

samarah

no samarah i do not agree with you
it is not the right way to try to find new
love to forget the first love

علي · 23-11-2004, 22:50

Sister sister sister

I don't understand why do you have to forget him and so does he?!

How long will you be away from your country?

Two years maximum?! I think you both can manage to stay away from eachother that long.

I don't think you will search for a new love outside your country...your man of dream should be from your country our at least from the same race "Arab"...Even if you tried, you won't be able to.

I think if he loves you enough he will waite until you come back with your degree. I think you are worth it.

Salam

sadbird69 · 24-11-2004, 03:50

What is this I hardly can understand the cause if you love him and he crazy about you and it seems you never fight so why do not you marry him when you both are ready

farah83 · 24-11-2004, 16:46

thx for all ur answers i'll start with
ale9tissadi
beleive me i've tried many times to not thinking about him i can do it when im aboard i can spend many hours without having his smile and his face in my mind but when im in my contry that's like i renew my

lings to him that's my pb in fact.

ali

in fact i'll stay here more longer than 2 years that's already my 4th year in this contry and i still have 3 others year so u can imagine he end.

sadbird69

i'll tell u way first of all we still young so our parents will never accept any engagement now so it's so hard to get married now

nadjwa2004 · 30-11-2004, 14:35

hi iam very happy to participe so one advice i can help u u r still young darling i and you can foud in the future nice man

القمر الهادي · 30-11-2004, 15:35

Hi

first thing I'm sorry for my spiling>

i dont now if you are muslimes or no.
if you are muslimes you now in our religin (islam) its not in low. and it against our gad relegin and his privet mohd>
I can not found rea sonable excuse to do this relishinship. i hop you under stand what i need to said>

last . I hope you will stop this relashonshipp for your gad first . then for your parents then for you self then for hem also.

think for you stadui now
sorry again

farah83 · 02-12-2004, 17:48

[grade="00008B FF6347 008000 00008B"]thx nadjwa for ur advice and really im trying hard to stop thinking of him,for u alkamar alhadi i know that our relationship is not allowed in islam that's why we've stoped it but the

ling of love is still existing and that's my pb i wanna a solution that can help me to forget his love but unfortunatly it seems that there is no effecient solution

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ســ هـــ ر · 10-12-2004, 11:54

وش دخلني بين الفاهمين هههههههه

prince yazeed · 12-12-2004, 01:18

farah ,how are you and i think that you must love him why! since may be something forced him to go to do this . believe me that he love you a strong .Please do not do either anyting may be you do not realize that.Finally give him a last chance and

l him that you love him a strong O.K.
thank you
prince

°•« § سارهـ §»•° · 12-12-2004, 01:23

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samarah

no samarah i do not agree with you
it is not the right way to try to find new
love to forget the first love

ليه ما توافقني الرأي على العموم هاذي وجة نضري
بلا ما تصبر وتتعذب

سلااااااااااام فرح

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